Friday, 8 April 2011

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Punjabi girls – Pakistani or Indian women?

I hear guys debating who are more hot Pakistani girls or Indian girls. For me it is a moot point. Why? Because you do not have to choose. Punjabi girls straddle both Pakistan and India.
This post will discuss generally the culture of these women and ideas where to meet them and not to meet them.  But perhaps the greatest value is at the end, I give one site on romantic shayari love phrases for sms, and two sites where you can meet girls on both sides of the border. I have no connection to these sites whatsoever, I just think they are of value if you want to chat up Punjabi girls.

unjabi shayari love – How many singles are there for marriage?

Let’s run the numbers:
  • There are 80 million Punjabi in Pakistan
  • There are 30 million Punjabi in India
  • There are 3 million around the world mostly Punjabi in UAE, UK and Canada and some in the USA.
So lets say there are about 113 million people or at least speak the language.  That means there are about 56.5 million Punjabi women in the world. From this, because of the way the demographic bell curve looks, lets say 1/3 are single and in marrying age and someone hot.  That means there are about 20 million single Punjabi girls looking for marriage. That is a lot.
The beauty of Eurasian Punjabi who are a mix of European and Arab and local peoples is amazing. The people are Aryan, Parthian, Scythian, maybe Turkish, Greek, British, Jewish to a much less degree and more.  They are truly Indo-European not just Asian or Arab. Eurasian genes like these are also found in far Western Asia and Eastern Europe. It strange how so many people in the world think these exotic distant lands are so different when in reality they are our cousins under the veil of cultural differences.
Religiously they are 90% Islamic and 10% Sikh, Zoroastrian, Christian and Hindu on the Pakistan side.  On the Indian side it is 60%  Sikh 37%  Hindu and a minority are Muslims,  Jains and Christians. Some people say if you are from the Middle East look on the Pakistan side, if you are from India or the West look on the Indian side for your princess.

Why Pakistan guy are so lucky when it comes to love?

Look Pakistan guys have a hard situation. On one hand they want to meet beautiful Punjabi girls, but on the other hand they live in a very traditional culture and it is hard to interact with females on a normal basis.  This makes many Pakistani guys very geeky and awkward when it comes to interaction with the opposite sex. Many feel like I did when I went to an all boys school, I had the desire to connect but could not.
However, even with these issues they are really blessed with some of the most beautiful, loyal women in the world. Further they have good morals. You marry a Punjabi girl, chances are she never had a boyfriend. I think many American girls do not have this same level of moral virtue. Further, in Western culture if you are a man a want to marry a girl of virtue, you are almost laughed at.  In Pakistan this is not the case.  So Pakistani guys have a lot going for them when it comes to women, even though if their culture is a little traditional and it prevents them from relaxed interaction.

Where to look for a Punjab wife?

The cities where you find the most single Punjabi girls are Lahore, Dubai, Islamabad, Amritsar, Chandigarh, Himachal Pradesh if you can travel.  If not the Internet.
If you live in Pakistan or India than it is less of a problem to meet these girls. You do not have to meet them online as a market or University is the biggest chat room there is.
If you do not and are not from this region, I think it will be very hard to make inroads with a Pakistani girl.  You have to be Muslim. In my opinion your chances of marrying a Pakistani girl are zero to none if you are not Muslim. Even if by some chance of luck you marry a Muslim and you are not, in their mind the marriage is not authentic as they can only marry someone who is a believer for the marriage to be real.
Now if they are not strict about it and you are not, no problem. I think other Middle Eastern countries are more open about it but not Pakistan as much. I think the girls want to be but they are not allowed, unless they were living in Dubai or Canada or the London for example. But even then you have to consider their parents.

Avoid bad Pakistani girls

The worst places to meet Punjab girls in Lahore are:
Heera Mandi  – Here in the Diamond district you can watch women dance traditional dances no problem. The issues are there are less virtuous ladies who will try to snag you into their web and do things which are not honorable.  I highly recommend you do not pursue these activities in Pakistan as it is not good morally and it the police really are looking out for the behavior. Watching a traditional exotic dance is one thing but do not be tempted for anything else.
Other place foreigners meet girls is the Barkat Market close to KFC, Iqbal town road, Moon market, and the Punjab University to stroll to meet girls.  I guess unless you have in Pakistani culture, it is very hard to meet nice girls.
Punjab university is one of the best place to meet female students, for example, the gate next to Sheikh Zayed Hospital. But remember a good normal Pakistani girl will not make eye contact with you. For a women to make eye contact in Punjab land is like an invitation. In my mind an invitation for temptation and trouble.
For example, if you are in a car and you see a nice girl and slow down and beep the horn once, you might get a smile. But beware that if you beep it twice it is a signal, and they will jump in your car and start a business transaction.  I only mention this because I want to highlight the fact that although society and culture in Pakistan is conservative, there are bad girls.  Do not be fooled to think just because they are a Punjabi girl they will be pure. Most are but some are not.
Bottom line of all the rambling above is I really doubt a foreigner can really find a Punjabi girl for marriage on the Pakistani side.
But maybe because they are covered in a veil and are more unattainable, it makes them more desirable . And if you ever could get one to marry you, she will be loyal and good to you all the days of your life.

Indian side of Punjab

Indian girls have more open clothes and more relaxed in general.
I have meet a number of girls in Internet cafe’s. It is a none threatening place where you can strike up a chat. That means sitting in an Internet cafe and striking up a conversation with a girl sitting next to you.  Indian girls generally are more approachable and equally good in terms of virtue and beauty. So when you ask who is better Pakistani or Indian, they both are equal but slightly different.
The the Indian side westerners can approach women without fear. However, it is still a traditional culture.

Internet sites to meet girls from India, Pakistan and the Middle East

  • Indian Punjabi girls you can search here:
  • – For the Pakistani side
  • Punjabi shayari – this site contains love poems – for a blogspot site it is not that bad. You can use some of these to send SMS to your girl you are flirting with.
  • The Indian site Shaadi is a much larger and well developed website and easier to navigate for an English language user.